ROMANTIC WOODLAND ENGAGEMENT SHOOT (WITH THE SWEETEST PROPOSAL STORY!)

Erin and Austin’s engagement shoot is all kinds of adorable (and we thought that before we even read their back story and proposal!).

This couple have been through a lot together, and after getting engaged in the breath-taking Silver Creek Falls State Park in Oregon, they decided to return to the scene of the crime for their engagement session.

And we’re so glad they did.

Photographed by the wonderful Terra Rothman Photography, this shoot is filled with candid moments, romantic portraits, and an ever-so-slight mishap, with a bottle of bubbly…

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How We Met

In 2011, Austin lived in Florida and Erin lived in Oklahoma… but they had one thing in common, The Smiths!

Erika Smith is Erin’s sister and JC Smith is Austin’s best friend. And during a visit to Florida, their meeting sparked a friendship!

A text message led to a phone call which then led to a Skype chat. After months of “just friends” conversations they finally admitted they liked each other and decided to make it official in August 2011.

Both Erin and Austin were in their final years of school with busy personal lives, but that didn’t stop them. They would talk, study, do chores, read books and watch movies together on Skype.

Over 6 months went by before Austin was introduced to Erin’s son, Roman, which was through a Skype conversation. The two of them also started to form a relationship which has grown to something really special today!

Austin graduated in May 2012 and got a job and moved to Oregon. Erin finished her degree in December of 2012 and moved to Oregon the very next month. January 2013 they were FINALLY together!!!!

The love and relationship continued to grow and in October 2013 Austin asked Erin to be his wife!

Thousands of miles and a year and a half long-distance relationship only made them work harder for what they knew they had in each other! They are excited to spend forever with each other!

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Our Proposal Story

It was Austin’s birthday weekend and Erin wanted to plan a fun activity for the family (Roman, Erin’s Dad, Austin & Erin).

Austin had previously mentioned he would like to go hiking at Silver Falls. Erin didn’t think anything of it because she knew how much Austin loved the outdoors. So they packed up and drove to Silver Falls which is located at the foothills of the Cascade Mountains.

Once they got there, they do what they always do with a four year old, they make a potty break. Erin and Roman used the restrooms and when they came out Austin was no where to be found.

Eric, Erin’s dad, said he went ahead of them to look at the falls. Since Erin didn’t know her way around the state park and her dad did, she was relying on his navigation skills to get them caught back up with Austin on the trails.

After 5 minutes of her dad pretending to forget the directions and leading them around the lodge in the wrong direction (he was stalling), she started to wonder what was going on.

Finally, they could see Austin standing along the ledge at the very top of the falls. He had an ipad with headphones set up on the stone barrier. Then he smiled, turned around, and started walking down the trail to the bottom of the falls.

Erin said “wait, where are you going?” and Eric said “Erin, put the headphones on.” She put the headphones on and looked at the display which read “To Erin, just press play” and she did. Her dad directed her to keep walking down the trail that led to the waterfall and watch the video at the same time.

The video, which was beautifully put together with pictures and music, described the journey of their relationship and the love they shared with each other and with Roman.

As Erin started to reach the bottom of the trail and the video was coming to an end, Austin’s narrating voice in the video said “and now I have a question for you, look up.” And she did!

Austin was waiting for her behind the waterfall with a big smile on his face. By this time she was crying and ran to him to hug him. Roman came to stand next to her and Austin got down on one knee.

He asked her to marry him and she said YES!

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Such a fun pair. And their proposal story is just the loveliest!

Thanks so much to Terra Rothman Photography, and of course to Erin and Austin for sharing their gorgeous engagement shoot with us.

Be inspired by more romantic Engagement Sessions + tear-jerking Proposal Stories. 

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A Garden Wedding in the Garden State Laden With Personal Touches

We love when a couple really throw themselves into planning their wedding, and when it comes to putting a stamp on their day, Becky and Tyler were all over it.

From guest book porch chairs, they’ll sit on ’til their old and grey, to cake toppers and cow bells to show how far they’ve come, this couple’s beautiful garden wedding in the Garden State, is just brimming with sweet personal touches.

With gorgeous photographs by Brae Howard Photography, Becky describes their day as “Happy, relaxed and personal”, and the smile on her face throughout, we’re incline to agree!

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Our Wedding

I grew up in New Jersey, my husband in Minnesota. We met at college – a small liberal arts school – in Massachusetts. 

We now live in Saint Paul, Minnesota, and we knew we wanted our many “homes” as well as the friends and family that make them home, be the biggest influences of the wedding.

It was definitely challenging planning a New Jersey wedding while living in Minnesota, but it allowed us to bring lots of personal touches to make it a fun, relaxing, party!

The most important thing to us was to have our friends and family there – we were so lucky to have people fly in from all over to be there to celebrate.

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The Photography

I actually found Brae Howard Photography through our venue’s blog.  She had photographed a wedding the previous summer, and I loved her style as well as the fun, natural moments she captured.

I figured that if she was able to capture such beautiful but easy-going moments that she would be someone I’d want around me on our wedding day. If you haven’t gathered this already, I’m pretty casual!

She was so flexible to work with during the planning (we actually Skyped for our meeting- I only met her for the first time at our wedding), and even more wonderful to work with the day of the wedding.

Our videographer, Black Box Films had recently done a friend’s wedding and I loved her video.  Watching the trailer gave me such a great feel for how the day went and what it was like – the fact that we went to high school with the videographer too was great.

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The Theme

I think the biggest theme of our wedding, which probably applies to everyone out there was “us”.  

We wanted our personalities, lives, friends, family, and homes to be portrayed throughout the event.  We like to think of ourselves as fun, energetic people, and we wanted to throw a big party for all our close friends.  

Our colors were navy, orange, peach, and yellow. Most of the decor as well as attire was chosen with the venue in mind – a rustic 18th century farmhouse with beautiful gardens.  

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The Dresses

Both my dress as well as the bridesmaid dresses were from Minnesota.  My Mom flew out for a weekend, and we spent one day shopping. We went out for lunch and made a couple stops- I ended up buying my dress from the Wedding Shoppe in Saint Paul.  

I wore fun coral Lilly Pulitzer wedges (for a fun kind of secret pop of color), and my grandmother’s pearls (she gave them to me right before she passed away- I’ve been waiting to wear them for the first time at our wedding).  Tyler also gave me the beautiful earrings I wore.

For my bridesmaids, I went local as well. I have become friendly with the family that own a local boutique here in Saint Paul called Primp. I knew I wanted an affordable but fashionable option for my bridesmaids dresses, so I asked if they might be able to help.  

My best friend and one of my maids of honor flew out for a weekend, and we spent a few hours trying on different dress styles and colors.  The girls at Primp took notes on what we liked, and what vision we were going for to know how to direct their next buying trip.  They came back with a handful of options, and we chose a simple navy blue dress.  We paired it with nude wedges (since we’d be outside on grass), and gold jewelry.  

My friends know that when they compliment me on an outfit or article of clothing it’s typically from Primp, so I was happy to include them in our wedding.  It also brought a few pieces of Saint Paul to our day.

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The Ceremony

I am a huge Yankee fan and baseball fan in general- which came straight from my Dad.  I knew I didn’t want a “traditional” walk down the aisle song, so I asked our guitarist to learn the Bernie Williams (old Yankee player and musician) version of “Take Me Out to the Ballgame,” so my Dad and I walked down the aisle to that.

It was funny during the reception and after the wedding, we had a few family friends (big Italian macho men) stopped me to say “I can’t believe you made me cry to ‘Take Me Out to the Ballgame’”- so funny! I also gave my Dad a pair of cufflinks as a gift for our wedding day made from game-used Major League baseballs.   

Our ceremony started with everyone offering each other a sign of peace – we thought this would be a fun way to have people meet and get people excited from the beginning.

We asked a few family members to take part in our ceremony, and it made it so special!

Tyler’s family is very musical, so we asked his Aunts to sing.  His Mom’s three sisters chose a song and sang it during our ceremony- it was beautiful.  

We asked my Aunt if she might do a reading, and asked her to surprise us.  She wrote us a poem about “Tyler and Becky” that we heard for the first time during the ceremony!

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The Personal Touches

Our programs were a long fan (the wedding was on August 31st and it was pretty toasty).  The back of the program was a jumble we made about us with questions like- what’s our cats name, where are we going on our honeymoon, the college we attended, and the class we met in during college.

We knew we wanted a guest book that we could display and look at every day, and we wanted it to be personal. Tyler’s brother (one of his best men) built us a pair of adirondack chairs as our wedding gift.

His parents drove them out to NJ from Minnesota (along with my wedding dress, corn hole sets, and other wedding projects) for us to use as our guest book.  They sit on our front porch and look fabulous!

Our cake topper was two purple cows holding hands- a purple cow (called an Eph) is the mascot of our college, Williams College in Mass.  We found a custom Williams cake topper on Etsy, but we asked the artist to add a few Tyler/Becky touches (can you sense a theme here!)- she gave the bride a softball glove (I played softball at Williams), and the groom wore a speedo with towel instead of a tux (Tyler was a swimmer at Williams).

Rather than having people clink their glasses to have the groom/bride kiss, we put cowbells on each table with a note that read “Ring for a Kiss”- the bulk of the cowbells were antique cowbells we collected over the past year as we traveled.  They were cowbells from Wisconsin (Tyler’s family cabin location), Maine (my family cabin location), MN (our home), NJ, Massachusetts (college), and Georgia (where I lived for a year after college)- it was also a play on the cow mascot.

Tyler made two corn hole sets that we set up for people to play during the reception.  He painted the outline of the state of NJ on the on and MN on the other. We gave them to our parents as thank yous for all their help and support with the wedding.

Our wedding favors were teddy bears from the Make-A-Wish Foundation. I have been involved with Make-A-Wish since I was a freshman in high-school, so rather than favors we made a donation in everyone’s name to the Make-A-Wish Foundation.

The bears had little Make-A-Wish ribbons tied around their necks with a thank you note from us.

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The Refreshments

We had a few signature cocktails, made with our favorite beverages, Cinnamon Toast Crunch, New Jersey Sour (my favorite drink is a whiskey sour), Napa Margarita (Tyler loves tequila), and Raspberry Tea.  

It’s funny though, the drink of the night was Fireball Whiskey- I think just about everyone was taking shots of it throughout the night.  

We had a seated dinner with delicious food, and LOTS of appetizers.  Our cake was a simple vanilla cake with a custom cake topper

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The Decor

In many ways we let the venue speak for itself.  The gardens were in full bloom during our wedding and they were stunning and the old architecture of the barn and farm house were a beautiful backdrop.  

We added flowers (mason jars on the aisle, and centerpieces), and we used the colorful lanterns in the big tent.  

Event Designs by Katherine made us beautiful signs and hung wedding photos of our parents and grandparents where people walked in.  

The tables were simple, white tablecloths with a burlap runner covered in lace.

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The Flowers

With the simple navy dresses, we wanted some pops of color from our flowers.  We chose orange, peach, and yellow and loved the happiness they brought to the decor.  

Our centerpieces were three smaller holders that spread along each table.  We had a mixture of milk jars, mason jars, and galvanized pots.  

We wanted the flowers to bring some color and fun to the tables without being overpowering.

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The Music

For our recessional, the acoustic guitarist played “You Make My Dreams” by Hall and Oates- one of our favorite songs, and we thought it would set the tone for the dance party we intended for the rest of the night!

Tyler and I danced to Garth Brooks “Wrapped Up in You”- a kind of faster paced, light hearted song. We love country music and Garth Brooks, so this one was easy to choose.

On our invitation, specifically the portion we asked them to return (RSVP) we asked our guests to include a song that would “get them on the dance floor.”  

The requests were SO FUN! They gave us a great mix of songs to give to the DJ, and had everybody on the dance floor throughout the night (our goal).  You would hear people in the middle of a conversation shout “this is my song!” and run to dance.  

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Advice for Other Couples

My favorite website for shopping during our wedding was Etsy.  We bought our bridesmaid gifts, (embroidered robes), groomsmen socks, cufflinks for Tyler, our flower girl gifts (monogrammed necklaces), the bracelet I wore, our cake topper, a custom rubber stamp for our return address, and the cufflinks for my Dad.  

Tyler bought his groomsmen gifts (flannel shirts) from a local Minnesota company. We loved having the ability to customize these products, and had things that were one of a kind!

One of the best things we did during the wedding planning process was lean on our venue for recommendations- they were more than helpful when asked to supply recommendations for vendors.  They’d worked with them before, and we knew they’d be comfortable at our venue – it definitely made it easy.  

We were so lucky with the Crossed Keys Inn, as they handled many of the moving parts and acted as pseudo wedding planners throughout the process.  They helped us with the planning- making suggestions for things they knew worked, and we couldn’t have done without them on our wedding day.  

The day went off without a hitch, and they were there with us throughout the process.  Allowing them to do what they do best made it fun to personalize lots of the details.  

It was fun looking at our pictures just now and remembering how much we really thought about all the details!

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Such a fun day.

Thanks so much to Becky and Tyler for sharing their personalised garden wedding with us. Here’s to many years sitting on porch in those guestbook chairs of yours.

( I can’t believe Tyler’s brother made them, what an incredible gift!)

10 Expert Tips To Create the Perfect Cheese Wheel Wedding Cake

So cake might be up there among our very favourite things, but we reckon cheese makes a firm case for second place.

And luckily for us (not-so-much for our waistlines), cheese wheel wedding cakes have never been so popular.

From a creamy brie to a sweet Wensleydale, or a punchy blue to a smokey cheddar, cheese can add a refined yet rustic foodie feel to your wedding.

Adorned in grapes and figs or berries and flowers, cheese wheels make a quirky alternative to your wedding cake, or a chic twist on your typical dessert or late night snack.

But while we’re something of experts in the merits of chocolate biscuit and Baileys buttercream, when it comes to choosing the right tiers for a cheese wheel, we need a little help from the pros.

Meet Andy Swinscoe of The Courtyard Dairy in Settle, North Yorkshire, England. As winner of Cheesemonger of the Year at the 2013 World Cheese Awards, and with experience developing cheese wedding cakes with John Lewis, it’s safe to say Andy knows his Camembert from his Cambozola.

So who better to guide you on your way to the perfect cheese wheel wedding cake?

Take it away Andy…

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1. Order extra supplies of the top (smallest) tiers.

Most people buy a cake without realising they’ll have less of the cheeses at the top! As you get higher up the tiers so the cheeses get smaller. That can often mean you’ll get a tiny cheese on the top to split between all your guests.

If you want an even selection for everyone to taste, order a few extra of these smaller ‘top-tier cheeses’ to be served once the cake is cut.

2. Make sure you’ve pre-tasted all the cheeses in your cake.

Taste is so important – you want people to be amazed by the cheeses in your cheese wedding cake. Good cheese shops will let you come in and taste the cheeses first.

But if you don’t have a great cheese shop close enough, the best ones will allow you to mail-order a sample box of your selection of cheeses.

The Courtyard Dairy regularly sends out sample boxes so that their customers can be sure of the quality and amazing flavours on offer.

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3. Size and colour matter too.

The very best cheese wedding cakes will look stunning, as well as taste amazing – and although it’s not all about the size, choose your cheeses so that the layers go up in nice increments, with at least 2cm difference in diameter between each layer.

Add a bit of colour to the cake for an extra-special effect (you can use cheeses like Sparkenhoe red Leicester or Shropshire Blue, but this can also be done with fruit decorations too. 

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4. Try to balance styles.

A cheese wedding cake shouldn’t contain cheeses that all taste the same and have the same texture! This can be a problem if you simply concentrate on the diameters of cheese rather than the colour, texture and taste. So be careful when you’re choosing.

Try to select a range of styles – at least a hard, a soft and a blue – but think about adding a goats’ cheese and a crumbly Lancashire, Cheshire, or Wensleydale too.

It’s worth noting that the harder cheeses will probably be the most popular so you’ll want the biggest quantity of those.

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5. Build your own.

The Courtyard Dairy, and most good cheesemongers, will let you book an appointment so you can taste cheeses and create a cheese wedding cake to fit your requirements perfectly, but you may prefer to build your own.

If you have a favourite cheese, you could ask your supplier to cut it in flat circles rather than the normal wedges so you can build up tier after tier.

If you are thinking of building your own cheese wedding cake, take a look at The Courtyard Dairy’s cheese diameter dimensions web page to help you build the ideal tapering tower. 

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6. Don’t be afraid of using a soft cheese in the lower layers.

Although a soft cheese will deform under the weight of the cheeses on top, there are a few tips and tricks you can use.

Cut out a small circle in the centre of the soft cheese and insert an egg cup. The next layer will then rest on this, and you won’t be able to see the egg cup. If it’s a wide cheese, use three egg cups with a cake plate on top.

7. Add height to your cake.

You can give your cake a bit of extra height in a relatively inexpensive way. Simply use glass tea-light holders between each layer – this will add height to the cake and give you space to decorate. 

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8. Small can be beautiful.

For something quirky or different, you could create an individual smaller cheese wedding cake for each separate table.

By using two or three small cheeses, for example Tunworth Camembert topped with an individual goats’ cheese such as Dorstone, you can create a cheese table cake your guests will love!

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9. Serve your cheese at room temperature.

Cheese tastes so much better at room temperature – so make sure it’s out of the fridge a couple of hours before it’s cut – not too long though – you don’t want the Brie running down the aisle!

10. How much cheese do you need?

70g-100g of cheese per person is ideal for a normal cheese plate serving. If it’s to constitute a main part of the meal – double that quantity. 

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11. (The extra one.) Be safe and minimise the worry.

Always order your cheese wedding cake well in advance so you can be sure that the cheese will be perfectly ripe on the day.

Make sure you get it delivered a couple of working days before the big day, so that’s one less thing to worry about.

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Stunning Mountainside Elopement with a Picnic for Two

Today’s real wedding is a little bit different to many of the nuptials we feature here at Bridal Musings.

There’s a bride. There’s a groom. There are flowers, a wedding cake and even a stunning setting.

But that’s it.

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Chris and Robin describe their wedding as intimate, serene, and enchanting. And that’s exactly what is was.

Eloping on a breathtaking mountainside in Leavenworth, Washington, Chris and Robin’s marriage was officiated in the very spot they were engaged.

Striped back, simple, and stunning, Robin (in a beautiful alternative wedding dress) and Chris (wearing his father-in-law’s tie) enjoyed a romantic ceremony, tranquil moments, and a picnic for two.

And documenting this enthralling elopement was the wonderful Tonie Christine, a Seattle photographer who prides herself on capturing “The bride who does not just walk the aisle but she blazes her own trail.”

Well, when it comes to bucking trends and having a wedding that’s uniquely you; This gorgeous pair sure are a couple of trail blazers…

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The Inspiration

Six months before the ceremony, we were snowshoeing around this very mountain. We stopped and sat on a large rock, drank hot chocolate, talked, and prayed together.

As we were leaving, Chris got on one knee and proposed! The ceremony took place at that very spot and is right above our new home. It will always be a special place to us!

We really wanted to capture the beauty of the mountains and the stillness that they bring. We wanted to keep things simple and focus on the meaning of the day itself and each other.

Everything was understated while our color inspiration came from the mountains themselves with navy, browns and greys.

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The Flowers

We wanted the flowers to blend in with the feel of the mountains while still looking bridal.

Columbia City Bouquet included small branches and lush greens to give the bouquet a more rustic feel while incorporating white garden roses and more to keep it soft and bridal and did an amazing job at capturing the look we were going for!

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The Refreshments

We wanted something that felt like “us” so we decided to snack on some of our favorite goodies from local farmers and markets.

The wedding cake was made by Cake Chic Studio and we added the fresh pears for a bit of flair!

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The Décor & Details

We borrowed some family antique cutting boards to use as our table.

We decided not to add any decorations to the ceremony so that the mountains could be the main focus.

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The Attire

I loved that the white lace on my gown made me feel like a bride, while the navy blended in with the mountains and coordinated with Chris.

I wore a Catherine Deane gown and my mother’s leather belt. And Chris wore his own attire with his father-in-law’s white silk tie. 

We added touches of brown leather to tie in with the trees around us.

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The Photography

In addition to her incredible talent, Tonie’s passion and excitement is so contagious! She makes you feel completely at-ease and is able to capture special moments in such a beautiful way.

We were so blessed to have her be such a big part of our day.

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Favourite Moments

Our favorite memory was saying “I Do” and spending some quiet moments together, reflecting on the past and dreaming of the future while looking out over the beautiful valley!

We are so glad we kept things simple for our elopement. Having a beautiful cake, some flowers, and an incredible photographer to capture our day was perfect!

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Isn’t it just breath-taking.

I love the idea of such a serene day. Sometimes city elopements can seem a little impersonal, but this one, on a stunning mountainside is just so intimate and romantic. And what beautiful photography by Tonie Christine?

Swoon-worthy, Cultured and Educational; V&A Wedding Dresses 1775-2014

To celebrate the weekend, we have a very special post, with a very special guest contributor!

Meet Amanda Gegg. The latest member of the BM posse.

Amanda is a London-based PA, writer, and semi-professional cake eater, who’s more than a little bit obsessed with all things fashion, travel and music.

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Something of a culture vulture – especially when there’s dress swooning involved – Amanda takes us around an exhibition dedicated to silk trains, tulle skirts, couture designs and serious star power.

Take it away Amanda.

Wedding Dresses 1775-2014 at the V&A, London

Calling all brides to be – or indeed anyone who enjoys an indulgent day out with a splash of culture – this might be your dream exhibition. 

Over the next ten months the V&A Museum in London, will be offering visitors the chance to take a journey through the origins of the wedding dress. Wedding Dresses 1775-2014 is an exhibition that takes in all the social, cultural and historical factors that have made the wedding dress what it is today.

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The exhibition is beautifully set in the dome of the V&A, in amongst a sea of white walls and display cases spread across two floors.

Visitors are introduced to the Georgian era of the wedding dress, incorporating a very Jane Austen feel with all of its silk brocade and embroidered muslin.

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We are then shown the organic progress the dress made towards the Victorian age where Queen Victoria (ever the business-mind she was) introduced British lace to the mainstream market, which lives on in gowns and wedding veils today.

The next chapter in the journey depicts ‘The Society Wedding’ (1930-1940) and my goodness these dresses are absolutely breath-taking, especially that of Ms. Charles Sweeney whose remarkable dress will have you completely entranced.

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It becomes very clear as you go on that dresses made at the turn of the twentieth century were designed to have wow factor.

There is a very clear influence of evening wear starting to come through, with layered construction and scalloped hemlines, not to mention a mix of materials to create the texture which many brides look for in their dresses today.

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After a little cinematic trip down memory lane for all of you who love a royal wedding (and the legendary dresses of Princess Diana and Kate Middleton), we are lead upstairs to the mezzanine floor and to the latter part of the twentieth century. On another regal note, don’t forget to look out for the Duchess of Cornwall’s fabulous bridal ensemble. 

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The first dress you are presented with at the top of the stairway is that of Dita Von Teese and you would be forgiven for needing a few moments to gather yourself when you are confronted with the beautiful boldness of this purple Vivienne Westwood creation.

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Westwood’s innovative approach to style and colour sets a very good precedent for the rest of the mezzanine floor where you are consequently sent through a whirlwind of the revolutions in style and colour that presented themselves from the 1960s onwards.

There are very clear changes that took place in the late twentieth century with one of the main developments being the ‘ready-to-wear’ wedding dress challenging traditional couture.

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This, for most of us, is a wonderful thing offering us the opportunity to view dresses before they are made, and furthermore, makes the mezzanine floor of this exhibition a veritable treasure-trove of inspiration for brides-to-be.

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There are, of course, still dresses that will completely blow you away, after all this is what this exhibition is all about.

Leading the way in this respect is the world-renowned designer John Galliano with his innovative cut and construction.

We are even lucky enough to see first hand some of the most famous examples of his work including the wedding dresses of Gwen Stefani and Kate Moss.

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So there you have it; the marvels of the world’s best wedding dresses (and their designers), all under one roof.

And it’s not just swoon-worthy, it’s educational too.

The V&A have scheduled talks and seminars throughout the exhibition. If you’re in London, look out for Alice Temperley: Wedding Fashion, a guest lecture from the iconic British designer, on Tuesday 10th June 2014. 

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Dress, John Galliano| Image, Daily Mail

How cool to be able to see such iconic dresses up close and personal? I never noticed all that stunning sequin detail in Kate Moss’ wedding dress before, so who knows what other delights you’ll uncover if you head along.